Sunday, October 20, 2013

Inside or Out? How do we pray?

Should we pray to God within or to God outside of us? As discussed in class this past week, most types of prayer fall into basically two categories: communication and reflection. I don’t know that we have to choose in an either/or fashion.  Should anyone tell us which way we “should” pray? Shouldn’t you practice what works for you in your spiritual journey? And wouldn’t it depend on your understanding of God?

Most world religions have some type of prayer practice. Buddhist chant devotionals, Islam has the second pillar of praying five times a day, etc. As Dr.Tom Shepherd pointed out, there are indications that as far back as several thousands of years in early civilizations that humans have taken in part in some kind of religion or worship (e.g., Göbekli Tepe). Humankind seeks answers. When we as humans look at the world and events that we don’t understand, we automatically look for meaning. We try to think, we try to rationalize and comprehend what is happening to us.  Primitive forms of prayer involved invoking deities who were thought to be happy or unhappy, in hopes of appeasing them in some way so that we could go about living harmoniously and in balance with the earth, the crops, the weather, the tribe, etc. So, prayer could be viewed as a way of interacting (whether by communing or reflecting) with that which is beyond our natural comprehension, be it to a deity or a mountain or a spirit.

The primitive forms of prayer were oftentimes directed to a god outside or separate from humans. Over the centuries, prayer practices evolved as humankind evolved. While some of the practices were carried forward and refined based on new understanding, some practices fell by the wayside (like animal sacrifice in worship ceremonies). Nevertheless, there still persists this thing called prayer, and now we wrestle with “how” we do it.

So to address the original question above regarding praying to God within or outside of ourselves, one would have to establish a definition of prayer and an understanding of God, both of which can vary. There are all kinds of definitions for prayer, just as there are all kinds of perceptions of God.

A simple dictionary meaning for prayer (dictionary.com) would be: 1. a devout petition to God or an object of worship, 2. a spiritual communion with God or an object of worship, as in supplication, thanksgiving, adoration, or confession. However, for many, the first definition conjures up images of an anthropomorphic God outside of us, which many in Christian and New Thought circles have transcended, and viewed as somewhat primitive. This could be why some folks have a problem with the concept of praying to a God outside us. Perhaps, this makes them feel separate and apart from God. And the point of prayer for them is communion, establishing connection with God. It is possible in this modern society, that people desire more closeness, even oneness with God, not more separateness.
The second definition “a spiritual communion” sounds more like what Charles Fillmore, co-founder of Unity, states in the Metaphysical Bible Dictionary (534-535). It defines prayer as “communion between God and man.” He goes on to say that we “turn our attention within to the very center of our being, where the Father dwells.” (Father, meaning God) Further down, it reads, “Here is the recognition of the all-inclusiveness and completeness of Divine Mind (God). Everything has its sustenance from this one source…” By focusing on God within, this definition points to a sense of completeness, regardless of what the prayer concern is. Many folks practicing this type of affirmative prayer may favor it because of the union or oneness they sense and perhaps because this is what has proven to be effective and fulfilling in their lives. Whether it’s meditation, contemplative prayers, intercessory or whatever kind of prayer a person prefers, there is probably a reason the person prefers it. Perhaps he or she experiences the assurance, connectedness, or peace he or she desires and finds. Why else would they spend time doing it?

Jesus taught extensively on prayer in the Gospels and many have interpreted those teachings in different ways.  It is a question of interpretation as far as what anyone will take from these teachings and how they will apply them. In Matt 6:6, Jesus says “But whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” Some people take this to mean going within your heart and shutting out the world or external mind chatter; but then right in the same sentence it says “pray to,” which some people take to mean you’re praying to a God outside yourself.  Is Jesus saying to go to God within?

This question is almost like saying how do you prefer to get clean, by taking a shower or taking a bath? If God is indeed infinite, omnipresence, omniscience, then whether you direct the prayer within, up, or out, there would be contact. Right? How could you miss if God is there whenever and wherever you pray? Since God can be considered Transcendent and Immanent, it would seem to leave us with our options open to access God either way. Effective prayer that gives the sense of union and is infused with faith, sincerity and receptivity of the heart, earnestness, could be experienced either way. You get to choose.

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