So, here are a few more words on prayer. I think we all have some notion about what prayer
is, but here’s a dictionary meaning or two. The American Heritage College Dictionary
Fourth Edition defines prayer in the following ways: “a reverent petition made to God or another
object of worship” or “an act of communion with one worshiped, as in devotion
or thanksgiving.” It can also mean anything from “the slightest of hope” to “a
fervent request.” Merriam Webster’s Dictionary of Basic English defines prayer
as “words spoken to God, the act of praying to God, a strong hope, or a set
form of words used in praying.”
It appears one of the definitions above (an act of communion
with one worshiped) is similar to Charles Fillmore’s in Revealing Word, (p. 152),
which says prayer is “communion between God and man.” We cannot really separate
out from the question of what is prayer from that other looming question, which is
what or who then is the God with which you commune? How do you commune with the God of your
understanding? It seems that how you understand God has a lot to do with how
you pray. Can you really tease the two questions out from each other? The
answer to both questions invariably will be all over the place and vary from
individual and faith to faith. How one
prays and when one prays will hinge upon one’s beliefs and thoughts about God.
And yes, prayer is communal, individual, mystical, spoken, unspoken, long,
short…great, we have so many options!
There still continues to be a controversy over let it in vs.
let it out…should we pray from within or pray to? Does this innately convey
that it HAS to be one or the other? We
will always be stepping on somebody else’s toes I guess. It’s better to just
decide to make up my mind that I’m just going to be love and embrace diversity
of thought when it come to the manifold ways individual expression of an idea such
as prayer is going to show up. I don’t want to embrace something like this so
tightly that I can see the other person’s point of view - - even with how they
pray or how they meditate. But
realistically I must face the times when I will hit a wall, which I have, with
things that don’t feed me. It’s not that I want to act like they don’t, that’s
not authentic. So the authentic way is to be more about what I’m for - - and
don’t make up a bunch of drama about what I see is not working (for me). I find and do what
makes my heart sing. If I like soul food, I go where there’s soul food, or
better yet I cook some. I don’t need to force it on anyone else. I do me. I am
an individual unique expression of the Divine. My life is a prayer-one constant
prayer. My prayer life, my thanksgiving
and praise, and devotion life mean a lot to me. I like having different practices...daily, weekly, quarterly retreats--it varies. And since God is everywhere
present, then everywhere I am - I’m communing. It’s a two-way street. Or rather
a One inter-meshed, intertwining, overlapping street.
Because there are so many ways to pray and
meditation, people must do what works for them and what they are comfortable
with. What gives a person a sense of the Infinite? What gives them a sense that
they are connecting or communing? For me, it’s realizing that I am connected
already. Whatever comes up in life, I’m connected already. And even if science,
research, quantum physics tend to support this now…I will still believe I am
One with God.
In the early 1900s the medical field was not that advanced
like it is today. Prayer was a front contender for healing. I couldn’t help but
think of all the faith healers that were going around in the 50s and 60s when I
was a small child - - it seems there was a new breed of healing practices
springing up all over the place. Now that
we have all different kinds of alternative medicine, meditation practices, and
modalities to experience healing, do we really need prayer? Is prayer now a
last resort, or a just in case, or a backup? I like what Larry Dossey, MD,
says, “Although science tells us that
prayer works, it cannot tell us how
it works. Science is limited in studying prayer. Therefore, science can never
swallow up prayer, as some people fear.” I agree.